chore: capping mechanism for relay and service connections #6185

Job	Run time
changes	5s
build-ubuntu-22.04	19m 54s
test-ubuntu-22.04	33m 8s
build-macos-13	15m 58s
test-macos-13	30m 57s
build-docker-image / docker-build-ubuntu-22.04	4m 34s
js-waku-node / node	6h 0m 15s
js-waku-node-optional / node	1m 7s
nwaku-nwaku-interop-tests / test-pr / tests	2m 6s
Lint	36s
	7h 48m 40s

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