fix: only change focus from BPB if not tap or mouse click

[Frenzie]

References #9006. Minor extension of #4497.

Specific Changes proposed

Don't set focus after tapping on the big play button

Requirements Checklist

• Feature implemented / Bug fixed
• If necessary, more likely in a feature request than a bug fix
  • Change has been verified in an actual browser (Chrome, Firefox, IE)
  • Unit Tests updated or fixed
  • Docs/guides updated
  • Example created (starter template on JSBin)
  • Has no DOM changes which impact accessiblilty or trigger warnings (e.g. Chrome issues tab)
  • Has no changes to JSDoc which cause npm run docs:api to error
• Reviewed by Two Core Contributors

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 0% with 1 line in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Project coverage is 84.31%. Comparing base (c7298d4) to head (0940ae9).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
src/js/big-play-button.js	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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- Hits         6920     6873      -47     
- Misses       1232     1279      +47     

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