chore: dependency updates (#306)

* test(e2e): npx requires env var set to be non-interactive now

* build(deps): bump gradle to 7.4 for our android builds

* chore(tests): quiet build warnings for non-Notifee code in ios build

* build(ios, tests): parallelize builds to remove build warning

This popped up, and I think changing this setting is fine these days:

Building targets in manual order is deprecated - choose Dependency Order in scheme settings instead, or set DISABLE_MANUAL_TARGET_ORDER_BUILD_WARNING in any of the targets in the current scheme to suppress this warning

* build(ios, test): remove ruby-version pinning items

this was added in react-native 0.67 and is problematic if you use
modern ruby versions as it causes pod install warnings

* build(ios, test): use pod-install package to install test pods

this avoids the problem with firebase transitive dependency pod
install failures when installing new react-native-firebase versions

* build(deps): update dependencies

prettier could not be updated without casuing some sort
of yarn install issue

android/gradle/wrapper/gradle-wrapper.properties

@@ -1,5 +1,5 @@
 distributionBase=GRADLE_USER_HOME
 distributionPath=wrapper/dists
-distributionUrl=https\://services.gradle.org/distributions/gradle-7.2-bin.zip
+distributionUrl=https\://services.gradle.org/distributions/gradle-7.3.3-bin.zip
 zipStoreBase=GRADLE_USER_HOME
 zipStorePath=wrapper/dists