update ci, default build optimized #22

Job	Run time
test (3.9)	44m 55s
test (3.9)	41m 37s
test (3.9)	29m 31s
test (3.10)	44m 54s
test (3.10)	42m 28s
test (3.10)	44m 54s
test (3.11)	38m 33s
test (3.11)	44m 56s
test (3.11)	23m 48s
test (3.12)	38m 35s
test (3.12)	30m 27s
test (3.12)	25m 49s
Build unoptimized wheels	0s
Build unoptimized wheels	0s
Build unoptimized wheels	0s
Build optimized wheels on ${{ matrix.os }}	0s
Build optimized wheels on ${{ matrix.os }}	0s
Build optimized wheels on ${{ matrix.os }}	0s
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