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cloudui committed Jun 4, 2024
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In my experience, people are still just as judgemental as before. People may hide it, but they still view things in a critical lens. After all, we have to evaluate everything in our lives with some value system. Otherwise, how can we decide what deserves attention and what doesn't? When you catch that super senior flirting with freshmen, go ahead and judge. When you see that girl from your school posting feet pics on OnlyFans, it's fine to disapprove. A judgement is simply an opinion. An opinion that may be right or wrong. An opinion, usually without the full story. An opinion nonetheless.

We can always choose to be empathetic. Most of the time, people have reasons why they do things that you may frown upon. Whehter it be from trauma, differences in upbringing, or simply a difference in values, you should always understand where people are coming from. At the same time, simply understanding doesn't mean you approve. Someone reading their partners texts without permission because their ex cheated on them is understandable. However, that doesn't make it right, nor is it the right solution. Recognizing this is a big deal because you'll know when you should make judgement calls. More importantly, you can diagnose a problem by understanding.
We can always choose to be empathetic. Most of the time, people have reasons why they do things that you may frown upon. Whether it be from trauma, differences in upbringing, or simply a difference in values, you should always understand where people are coming from. At the same time, simply understanding doesn't mean you approve. Someone reading their partners texts without permission because their ex cheated on them is understandable. However, that doesn't make it right, nor is it the right solution. Recognizing this is a big deal because you'll know when you should make judgement calls. More importantly, you can diagnose a problem by understanding.

When people say don't judge, just don't judge someone's full character by a snapshot of behavior. They're not perfect, and neither are you. But, you can and should judge people's behavior, given enough context. Don't let people you care about get away with something simply because its their choice. Even if it doesn't harm you or anyone else, it may harm them. And its our responsibility to look after our loved ones.

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