Add support for ParMETIS to local Dockerfile

[thvasilo]

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Description of changes:

Fixes #873

• We add support for ParMETIS to the main local Dockerfile. This way we don't have to maintain two separate Dockerfiles.
• Add an optional positional parameter to determine whether to include ParMETIS dependencies when building local image

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[thvasilo]

Removed 0.4 tag as we can merge this after the release, not urgent.

[jalencato]

LGTM