Refactor TLS 1.3 cipher selection and fix SSL_get_ciphers #5127

Job	Run time
amazon-corretto-crypto-provider	21m 54s
bind9	5m 2s
Cyrus-SASL	1m 17s
grpc	26m 4s
libevent	29m 17s
nmap	2m 17s
OpenLDAP	16m 58s
openvpn2-6	3m 55s
openvpnMaster	4m 6s
Python main	3m 50s
Python releases (FIPS=0 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=0)	12m 17s
Ruby releases (FIPS=0)	9m 23s
Ruby releases (FIPS=1)	9m 20s
Python releases (FIPS=1 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=0)	12m 40s
socat	5m 8s
strongswan	1m 56s
tcpdump	2m 0s
Python releases (FIPS=0 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=1)	12m 2s
Python releases (FIPS=1 OPENSSL_IN_CRT=1)	12m 7s
tpm2-tss	3m 43s
	3h 15m 16s

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