Configure action.destructive_requires_name in data node

[moesterheld]

Description

Due to a bug in the Opensearch client (opensearch-project/opensearch-java#894) our OS client will throw an exception when calling the nodes info endpoint when action.auto_create_index is set but action.destructive_requires_name (which should have a default value) is not.

In the data node, we can set the configuration accordingly to avoid that.

For users not using data node, a release not has been added.

Motivation and Context

see #18619

How Has This Been Tested?

Start data node without parameter set -> exception will be thrown

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Types of changes

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)
• New feature (non-breaking change which adds functionality)
• Refactoring (non-breaking change)
• Breaking change (fix or feature that would cause existing functionality to change)

Checklist:

• My code follows the code style of this project.
• My change requires a change to the documentation.
• I have updated the documentation accordingly.
• I have read the CONTRIBUTING document.
• I have added tests to cover my changes.

[moesterheld]

after talking to Dennis, we might choose a different approach and monkey patch the client. changing this back to a draft pr

[moesterheld]

monkey-patched in #18658