[CHIA-2224] Add some extra safety into `create_message_spend` #31177

Job	Run time
version / identify version	25s
Build amd64	13m 46s
Build arm64	13m 11s
Test debian:bullseye GUI ARM64	1m 14s
Test debian:bullseye GUI Intel	55s
Test debian:bullseye CLI ARM64	38s
Test debian:bullseye CLI Intel	29s
Test debian:bookworm GUI ARM64	1m 4s
Test debian:bookworm GUI Intel	49s
Test debian:bookworm CLI ARM64	38s
Test debian:bookworm CLI Intel	29s
Test ubuntu:focal (20.04) GUI ARM64	4m 29s
Test ubuntu:focal (20.04) GUI Intel	1m 53s
Test ubuntu:focal (20.04) CLI ARM64	50s
Test ubuntu:focal (20.04) CLI Intel	30s
Test ubuntu:jammy (22.04) GUI ARM64	1m 40s
Test ubuntu:jammy (22.04) GUI Intel	55s
Test ubuntu:jammy (22.04) CLI ARM64	1m 56s
Test ubuntu:jammy (22.04) CLI Intel	32s
Test ubuntu:noble (24.04) GUI ARM64	2m 51s
Test ubuntu:noble (24.04) GUI Intel	55s
Test ubuntu:noble (24.04) CLI ARM64	39s
Test ubuntu:noble (24.04) CLI Intel	56s
📦 Publish Installers (3.10, debian, DEB, deb, deb, linux, arm64, amd64, chia-blockchain-cli_{0}-... / Publish ARM64 GUI DEB	59s
📦 Publish Installers (3.10, debian, DEB, deb, deb, linux, arm64, amd64, chia-blockchain-cli_{0}-... / Publish Intel GUI DEB	21s
📦 Publish Installers (3.10, debian, DEB, deb, deb, linux, arm64, amd64, chia-blockchain-cli_{0}-... / Publish ARM64 CLI DEB	33s
📦 Publish Installers (3.10, debian, DEB, deb, deb, linux, arm64, amd64, chia-blockchain-cli_{0}-... / Publish Intel CLI DEB	42s
	54m 19s

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