[CHIA-2224] Add some extra safety into `create_message_spend` #31176

Job	Run time
version / identify version	25s
Build amd64 RPM (3.10, intel)	14m 42s
Test amazonlinux:2023 GUI Dirty	54s
Test amazonlinux:2023 GUI Clean	1m 5s
Test amazonlinux:2023 CLI Dirty	53s
Test amazonlinux:2023 CLI Clean	34s
Test fedora:37 GUI Dirty	1m 33s
Test fedora:37 GUI Clean	1m 34s
Test fedora:37 CLI Dirty	1m 8s
Test fedora:37 CLI Clean	1m 22s
Test fedora:38 GUI Dirty	1m 27s
Test fedora:38 GUI Clean	2m 8s
Test fedora:38 CLI Dirty	1m 0s
Test fedora:38 CLI Clean	59s
Test rockylinux:8 GUI Dirty	2m 32s
Test rockylinux:8 GUI Clean	1m 15s
Test rockylinux:8 CLI Dirty	58s
Test rockylinux:8 CLI Clean	42s
Test rockylinux:9 GUI Dirty	1m 10s
Test rockylinux:9 GUI Clean	1m 11s
Test rockylinux:9 CLI Dirty	32s
Test rockylinux:9 CLI Clean	33s
Test build image GUI Dirty	1m 18s
Test build image GUI Clean	1m 16s
Test build image CLI Dirty	1m 6s
Test build image CLI Clean	3m 11s
📦 Publish Installers (3.10, redhat, RPM, rpm, rpm, linux, x86_64, chia-blockchain-cli-{0}-1.{2}.... / Publish Intel GUI RPM	35s
📦 Publish Installers (3.10, redhat, RPM, rpm, rpm, linux, x86_64, chia-blockchain-cli-{0}-1.{2}.... / Publish Intel CLI RPM	28s
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